Here's a spiritual lesson you can try at home. Take a candle that has never been lit, and also a lighter. Using the lighter, pass its flame over the wick. Note how it does not immediately light. Do it again. Still no light, right? Now, hold the flame on the wick until you confirm that it has lit. Now, blow the candle out. Walk away for 5 minutes, then come back and repeat the above. Note that now that the wick has supported a flame, the candle lights with much less effort. Now as a final step, light the candle, blow it out, then immediately pass the lighter flame NEAR the wick. See how the flame leaps to the wick and it burns fully. What is the purpose of this effort? A candle is emblematic of our prayers. If we do not pray, we are like the candle that has never been lit. The flame must remain with us for a long time for us to show our prayer. Once we have approached prayer, we are like the candle which has been lit, and it becomes easier for us to support the flame, to engage in profitable prayers. It takes less to get us going! Finally, if we are praying but have our prayer interrupted, then re-engage it quickly, the flame leaps to light the way. So it is with our prayer. Thank you, St. Paul, for teaching us that we need to pray without ceasing! (1Thes 5:16-18)
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Monday, February 16, 2026
Friday, February 13, 2026
The Second Coming
The Holy Orthodox Church remembers our Lord’s Second Coming on this Sunday each year—the Sunday that begins Meatfare Week.
The Gospel reading begins: ““When the Son of Man comes in His glory, and all the holy angels with Him, then He will sit on the throne of His glory.”
The words from this first verse of today’s Gospel that always capture my attention are, and ALL the holy angels.
There is no scriptural reference detailing the total number of angels in heaven. St. Paul goes so far as to say, But you have come to Mount Zion and to the city of the living God, the heavenly Jerusalem, to an innumerable company of angels. (Heb 12:22) In short, there are so very many of them that perhaps only God Himself could number them!
The next phrase in today’s Gospel says, All the nations will be gathered before Him. How many people is this? Given today’s statistics, it is nearly 8.3 billion. All of those angels. All of us. All gathered before the Judge, before one Man. He returns to do what St. Matthew describes next: He will separate them one from another, as a shepherd divides his sheep from the goats.
What identifies the difference between a sheep and a goat?
A sheep is one who “does” without taking note of their good deeds. They feed, they give drink, they shelter those in need. They clothe those who are naked. They visit the sick and imprisoned. The goats also take no note of their “inactions” in not doing for others. And the fascinating part of the account is that neither sheep nor goat sees their connection with the Lord. Both ask the same question: When did we see You in need, Lord? The difference is in the Lord’s answer. You did (or did not) do it for Me when you did (or did not) do it for…. Those separated as sheep are surprised to find that it was in fact Jesus for Whom they were providing. Those goats are surprised to find that it was in fact Jesus Whom they were ignoring. Each group does what they do because of their character (or lack thereof). Wise virgins wait. Good servants serve. Sheep also serve. The difference compared with nature is that we are free to choose to be a sheep. We are free to choose to be a goat!
Who are those who benefit from the goodness of the sheep? The least of My brethren. The Greek word used for ‘brethren’ carries a connection between people as being joined by a common womb. It is yet another view of the Parable of the Good Samaritan—everyone is my neighbor, and all of us are one people, we have a common Father, we are all brothers and sisters.
Minimally at every Divine Liturgy, but also for most of us within our own daily prayer rule, we pray the Nicene Creed, within which are these words: And He shall come again with glory to judge the living and the dead. We echo the words of today’s Gospel reading in our daily prayers! Do we call to mind Matthew 25 when we pray the Creed? If not, why not? If not, do we look for the Second Coming as being a certain event, one that looms on the human (and my personal) horizon?
Tuesday, February 10, 2026
This is What it Means to be a Father
Or a mother, for that matter.
One of the definitions we have for God is, God is Love. And we know that God is One in the Holy Trinity, Father, Son and Holy Spirit. So when God the Son sets out to explain to His creation (mankind) how he should understand God, what description can He offer to help us understand that which is beyond our ability to comprehend?
He gifts to us the Parable of the Prodigal Son.
In the Gospel of St. Luke we find the scribes and the Pharisees grumbling. This Man receives sinners and eats with them. This is a judgmental attack toward God for His being loving and merciful!
And so our Lord attempts to lovingly bring them under His wing by offering not one, not two, but three parables.
First there is the parable of the man who has a hundred sheep, and he leaves the ninety-nine to go and find the one that is lost.
Second there is the parable of the lost coin and the fervent effort the woman makes to search for and find the lost coin, and of her rejoicing when she recovers it!
Continuing through the fifteenth chapter of the Gospel of St. Luke, we finally we get to what this author considers to be the ultimate parable given us by our Lord, that of the Prodigal Son.
You see, the son was exceedingly cruel. Metropolitan Anthony says this about him: When he says, ‘Father, give me my part of your inheritance,’ do the words not mean, ‘I can’t wait until your death...It is now that I want to reap the fruits of your life… Let us come to an agreement—for me you are dead. Give me what belongs to me, or what would belong to me after your death, and I will go and live the life I have chosen.’
Isn’t this emblematic of our own behavior toward our Heavenly Father? While we are with Him, we receive all we need from Him. But we feel limited by His rules. He expects integrity and truth from us. He expects us to understand the true meaning of love from Him. But too often, these expectations toward us are too much for us. We take His gifts, then turn and use them not as He would intend, but only to profit ourselves, without any returns to Him.
I for one can’t imagine agreeing to the young man’s request, knowing his inexperience and the danger to which it would expose him. But this Father is wiser than I am. His caving to the request indeed exposes the young man to many things not immediately to his benefit. But spending all, having to find a means of living, seeing oneself envying the swine for the food he is providing to them, all of this brings him to a core-level change, he came to himself.
Please note that related to this revelation is the image of fasting. He would gladly have filled his stomach with the pods that the swine ate, but no one gave him anything.
It is this hunger that changes him, and immediately he considers his Father’s own servants, and brings him to the point of generating his fervent confession. Father, I have sinned! He offers no excuse. He knows this is all on him!
Now, see the love of the Father, Who seemingly unceasingly stayed fervently looking for His son’s return. Jesus tells us that the Father saw him and had compassion, and ran and fell on his neck and kissed him.
The Father spoke no words to the son. He spoke only to the servants. Bring a robe. Put a ring on his finger. Put sandals on his feet. Kill the fatted calf. Let us celebrate!
As Metropolitan Anthony suggested the son’s motive of considering his Father as dead, so now the Father reverses this perspective. For this My son was dead, and is alive again.
Lord, instill within us a heartfelt desire to be faithful children, worthy of the love You show us each and every day of our lives.
Glory to Jesus Christ!